How to successfully seduce your virgin girlfriend by overcoming her resistance to sex so you make it a great experience for both of you, & make her first time special & memorable. As I talk about in my book, when you are in the process of trying to seduce your girlfriend, you want to take two steps forward and one step back at times based upon the level of resistance she is offering you. The most important thing is to maintain a woman’s level of safety and comfort so she always feels that if things are going too fast that she can ask you to stop, and you will respect her wishes. The idea is not to give up at the first sign of resistance, but simply to recognize that you are moving things a little too fast and to simply slow down enough to where her level of safety and comfort can grow to the point where she loses all inhibitions and becomes horny enough to let you have your way with her. All women have a natural fear of being forced to do things sexually with a man before they are ready. It’s like a pot of boiling water on the stove. When you first turn on the heat, nothing much happens. But over the course of several minutes, the water gets warmer and warmer until it gets so hot that it boils. The idea is to make a woman so horny that she wants you inside of her. The following is an e-mail from a YouTube viewer who has successfully modified his approach after initially failing to have sex with his virgin girlfriend a week ago. He did what I suggested and was able to seduce her and have great sex. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:
Hey Corey, hope you’re good. Thanks for uploading the video about what to do when my girlfriend says no to sex. I followed it and have been reading your book as well. So since that video I set up a date with her to just go bowling to have some fun and a laugh. The night was great. Then after the date I just said, “fancy coming back to my place?” At first I could see in her eyes that she wasn’t so sure after how badly I fucked up the last time she came to my place. (Nice way to read her body language and being aware.) So I said, “well I got a surprise for you, so it’s your loss if you miss out on this surprise.” She said, “oh what is it?” with a glint in her eye. I said, “now where’s the fun in telling you what it is? Come back and find out, or you can go home and be bored for the rest of the night.” (Nice way to be mysterious.) Being as curious as she is she came back. I had the candles all lit (Nice touch. Women love candles!) and we got to having some fun once again. Instead, this time around I didn’t just go for the jeans like before. (Smart, you were patient.) I did as you said and was kissing her neck and stroking her arm as I teased her. That got her in the mood because she started pressing against me like before. I then said, I’ll be right back. (Nice way to back off suddenly. You got her wound up, and then backed away a little bit. This builds sexual anticipation and tension.) I’m gonna go get that surprise. I came back wearing an army uniform lol. She told me on the first date when I was getting to know her how much she loved uniforms, and especially the army uniform. She was so shocked and said, “I cant believed you remembered something like that and did this for me.” (Translation: “You are making me feel really special and like you really care about me.”) I grabbed her and pinned her down on the bed and took control. (You gently lead women where you want them to go. You maintained her safety and comfort level and then made a bold and masculine move when you saw she was ready. She was beaming when she saw you in uniform.) I’m telling you Corey, I’ve never seen her so horny. Dude, it was insane. Everything was so different this time around. (You were prepared and took your time.) I had control over her and in the end she couldn’t take it anymore. She grabbed my hand and put it down her jeans. I had already gotten so much more from her than I did the last time around. Then after fooling around I went for her jeans. This time she just allowed it. In fact she even helped me get them off lol. (She passed the point of no return. It was sex or bust.) We had awesome sex. Then as I was laying there and looking into her eyes, she thanked me for making her first time so special. (It’s an incredible honor to take a woman’s virginity. She will remember that night for the rest of her life.) I just wanted to share this success story. (Good job!) Thanks for showing me Corey what I was doing wrong from when I last contacted you. I shall continue to read your book and change the silly things I do and I can’t thank you enough. (You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.)
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