How to develop your inner presence & alpha male energy to naturally draw & sexually attract women to you, & so other people perceive you as a leader, popular, interesting and someone they should get to know. Think about all the people you have met in your life who you would consider to have a magnetic personality. What was it about them specifically that drew you to them? Usually in high school, the captain of the football team is someone with a magnetic personality. He’s the guy that all the girls talk about and want to sleep with, and all the guys want to be his friend and hang out with him. Usually these guys are friendly, charming, outgoing, good conversationalists, successful, driven, focused, strong and unwilling to do or go along with things they’re not excited about. The following is an e-mail from a reader who writes in asking how to increase his presence, aura and confidence. He wants to learn how to become a magnetic personality to women and people in general. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:
I have a question that I hope you’ll be able to answer for me, and the rest of your viewers online. As a man, how does he increase his presence? How does he develop this aura around him that allows others to notice him? What is the key thing a man must do or work with in order for him to embrace his masculinity, this presence? How does he cultivate it so he is seen and felt? (1. Do something that you love for a living. 2. Take care of your body & work out regularly 3. Get weekly Network Chiropractic Adjustments. The adjustments or “entrainments” as Network Doctors refer to them, will make you feel more confident, centered, peaceful and relaxed than you’ve ever felt in your life. It’s the quickest way to fix your physiology and make you feel like you can do anything. 4. Improve your social skills. 5. Practice meeting more women. 6. Practice your skills of seduction to get better.) I have read a book, a small book called Silent Power by the author Stuart Wilde. (Never heard of it.) He teaches not to lean in on people, because in doing so, you suck others energy. (That is true. “Energy vampires.”) He emphasizes the ‘etheric’ energy and how every human is capable of achieving this state of being. Anyway, not getting too much into it, it is a spiritual self help book that touches on the subject of having that inner power. Corey, I have a spiritual goal to reach or have this thing called presence. What can every man do to reach it? (Repetition is the mother of skill. You must practice to get better.)
My second question is this, again, related to presence. What exercises would you suggest in order to gear towards being in your masculine and embracing it so it radiates out to everyone? (Work out with weights, do cardio & eat a healthy diet rich in green vegetable juices. Get regular Network Chiropractic Adjustments. Do something you love and that makes you happy. It’s much easier to talk to women when you are excited about your life and what you do for a living. If you’re not excited about your life, how are you going to get a woman excited about it? Your enthusiasm and conviction is very sexy and creates attraction when you talk about things you have a passion for with women.) What should be part of my daily discipline (Simple. Just try to get a little better each day. Try to be a better man today than you were yesterday. The past does not equal the future. What you do or fail to do today determines your future. That’s something to think about.) that I can keep progress with, in order to reach this state of being? Also, how is charisma and charm tied to having presence? (Charm comes from being sweet and playful in a non-attached way with women. Be ok with pissing some women off as you practice. I piss some women off as soon as I open my mouth with F-bombs, etc. But you know what? That’s their problem. I will never change who I am to gain the acceptance of another human being.) What do I do in order to be a more charming person? Being personable Corey, how do I change my behavior patterns so that I am seen as a personable/friendly person? (Practice your social skills like I mention above. Get used to talking to people where ever you go by asking them their opinions on things, what they do for a living, etc. It creates rapport with another human being when you sincerely ask them questions about themselves. It makes them like you because you are listening to them talk about their normally dull lives. You can download the Amazon Kindle version of my book to your Smartphone, PC, Mac or iPad in under 60 seconds for only $9.99 by CLICKING HERE to learn how to meet and date the type of women you’ve always wanted and have effortless relationships.)
Until next time Corey,
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